10 days ago 2 dear friends professed their perpetual vows.
I knew it was a big day but it took a few days before the enormity of it set in, to the tune of,
“I have friends married to God, Whoa!”
Then I cried for a long time.
I remember the phone call telling me that it would be the last phone call because day to day life in a convent doesn’t involve regular cross-country hour long phone calls about anything.
I remember the 1st letter filling me in about what it’s like to enter religious life with the hand written “PS” at the bottom that I read over and over again.
I remember my first retreat and saying “my best friend is a Sister” to anyone who asked me what brought me to the retreat, and hoping I’d get to see her. I remember how shocking (and equally amazing) it was to see her in her habit.
I remember leaving that retreat with more one friend who happens to be a Sister and nurturing those friendships.
I remember trekking to visiting day, when every obstacle you could imagine (and some you couldn’t) was telling me it wasn’t worth the effort. And it was SO worth it on so many levels.
I remember witnessing their profession of 1st vows in the sweltering heat thinking that there’s no place I’d rather be that day.
I’ll always remember the day they professed their perpetual vows, and wishing I could change things and keep things the same at the exact same time.
I’ll remember the end of the day when we all gathered for a picture. Only a small portion of our group of friends from college we able to attend but we were one of the biggest groups there, I think.
The children helped our smallish group practically double in size; there were SEVEN of them after all. I kept having flashbacks from my days in early childhood education, but then I realized I didn’t have to be “Miss Sarah” I could be “mom and dad’s cool friend.”
It’s been almost 10 years since I graduated from college (Lord, I feel old). We used to talk about what we all wanted to do after college and while I’m not sure all of us are exactly where they thought they’d be at this point in life (I know I’m not); we are all where we’re meant to be.