Every year I struggle when World CP Day comes along, but to be clear I have no problem with World CP Day in terms of playing a big part in the achievement of a goal. I want more people to know about Cerebral Palsy so being against World CP Day would be counterproductive.
I do find it to be counterproductive, not to mention confusing, that World CP is in the fall and Cerebral Palsy Awareness Month is in March. The CP community needs more community, having a “CP Day” & “CP Month” feels like being forced to choose between friends (or overkill having to commemorate both).
So what is one to do?
Jump on every awareness bandwagon that comes by, at least for now.
So what do I write when I’m hesitant to write?
A lot of CP Vloggers have done a “CP Tag.” Starting a Vlog or even just a few videos was something I was considering. But when you consider my limited track record with videos is roughly 1 hour of recording for 1 minute of usable footage any recording just isn’t in the cards right now, which may seem contradictory given my most recent venture. So you’re just going to have to settle for the written version.
1) What kind of CP do you have?
I have Spastic Diplegia Cerebral Palsy, which means my CP effects my lower limbs, aka legs.
2) How did you get CP?
I’m not exactly sure; I don’t know if anyone could be, because if we knew the cause wouldn’t there be a cure? I was born prematurely (32 weeks) so there’s a good chance that that played a role.
3) How did you feel about a growing up?
Truthfully I can’t remember. Does that make me old? I knew I was different from everyone else growing up, but the words “Cerebral Palsy” were rarely mentioned. There were times when I didn’t like it and there were times when I didn’t mind it at all, usually it revolved around what class I was being pulled out of for in-school PT and/or OT. My parents (and the rest of my family) tried to keep my life as normal as possible so I wasn’t given much of a chance to feel anything other than normal.
4) How has CP impacted your life (good and bad)?
I can’t really answer this question since I have nothing to compare to on a personal level.
However, CP impacted my life negatively because I was teased endlessly throughout school, particularly middle school. What I didn’t realize then, but I now do, is that I was the easiest to pick on because I was the one who was “most different.” I was perceived to be the “weakest” of the herd, therefore the easiest target. It sucked, but I’ve tried to put that behind me, and what I haven’t I’ve tried to use for positive purposes.
CP has impacted my life for the good because I’ve been given opportunities I wouldn’t have if I didn’t have CP. I wouldn’t have the same career, and certainly not the same vocation.
5) Do you ever think about your life without Cerebral Palsy?
I do, but not in the way people might think. When I find myself in certain situations, like after giving a talk or attending a conference, I catch myself thinking, I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t have Cerebral Palsy, so that’s pretty cool.
6) How was schooling with Cerebral Palsy?
I’ve had horrible and amazing experiences in terms of schooling with Cerebral Palsy, bullying aside. I was in a special education classroom in pre-school (ages 3-4) and then moved to mainstream classrooms (with an aide) for elementary school. I ditched the aide around 1st or 2nd grade (I told her to get lost). I was in public school until 5th grade. I was in private (Catholic) school from 5th-8th grade and received no services or accommodations during that time.
I attended public high school with no additional services or accommodations, other than gym class, because the school is so small; in fact, I often ignored what the administration put in place for me and did my own thing with no objections (and the accommodation for gym was more for my safety related to size rather than ability.
I attended 1 year of public university with one accommodation (a room on a lower floor), which was a big fail, but none of that was on my part what so ever. My last 3 years were spent at a private university with the same housing accommodation and accommodations for note taking. I didn’t think I needed any accommodations at all but thanks to a great relationship with the staff at the Disability Student Services offices I was willing to give their suggestions a try and my college experience was so much better for it.
Now I attend a private post-grad institution through an online program (although I am required to be on campus for part of the summer). I have no accommodations and I don’t foresee needing any in the future (but you never know). Thankfully the school is incredibly small so the community is incredibly accessible and supportive when/if needed by anyone.
7) How has your disability changed throughout your life?
Cerebral Palsy itself does not change over time (or so the people with medical degrees say). However, it does change how it affects your life, at least from my experience.
People with CP tend to age more quickly than our able-bodied counterparts since our muscles work harder (I’ve heard somewhere around 3-5 times harder). We’re also more likely to develop arthritis or osteopenia.
I’ve had less surgery as an adult than I did as a kid but I think that’s mainly because there aren’t a lot of studies on the effectiveness of surgery on older individuals with CP. Also a lot of the surgery I had as a kid was to help direct or redirect the growth process. Let’s not forget that medicine/science has developed a lot in my lifetime so that also plays a role I’m sure.
I can’t exactly say when things changed, nor can I explain how each time. But I can tell you that (for me) when some things get worse other things get better. It doesn’t make any sense but that’s just how things are for me.
8) How will things change for people with disabilities?
I can answer this in two ways, the way I’d like things to change or the way I think things are going.
I think things are changing for people with disabilities, obviously, but I wonder if things are going in a positive (or “right”) direction. The disability community is getting more exposure and being included in mainstream society. There’s rarely a day that goes by that I don’t see an able-bodied person sharing a disability related news item on social media. It’s exposure but is it always good exposure?
For example, the “in disability” right now seems to be Down’s syndrome (particularly during Fashion Week) but every article about someone with DS seems to have the same tone. They’re “beautiful,” “always smiling” and have a “bubbly personality,” but not much else.
What does that say to other people, in particular children, with other disabilities? That they’re not beautiful enough? Or that their personalities aren’t as “bubbly” so people won’t give them the time of day?
Cerebral Palsy isn’t much different when it comes to getting media attention. We all seem to “suffer,” “overcome obstacles.” We sometimes are classified as having a “disease,” which couldn’t be more wrong.
All stories attempt to highlight individuals, however so many of them say nearly the same thing.
Yes, things are changing for people with disabilities and a lot of the change is positive but I fear that much of it is venturing into “inspirational porn” territory and that isn’t the kind of change the disability community is looking for, at least I’m not.
9) Do you believe in God? Does that help you deal with having CP?
Yes I do. I wouldn’t say my belief in God helps me deal with having CP directly, but it does play a role in how I live and see my life (much like having CP does)
10) If there was a pill or cure for CP would you take it?
*A similar version of this post was written on October 7, 2015